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Permission to Grieve Our Losses

Last week, a friend of mine shared a meme. It depicted an old man in front of a bingo board. Above him was a picture of a weather radar showing twin hurricanes hurtling across the Gulf of Mexico. “Who had double hurricanes on their 2020 Bingo card?” the caption read. Twenty-twenty has certainly felt like that bingo card. My family […]

At Home Outside Evangelicalism

“Where do you go to church?” she asked. I remember the chill of the water as I stood there, waist-deep in the pool while our kids splashed around us, wishing there was a way to not answer her question. To be fair, I had asked her the same one just a few moments before. I’m always tremendously interested in where […]

Are You a Hider?

I never thought I would be a hider. Six months after I joined the corporate world in 2008, my supervisor conducted an anonymous 360 review of my performance. The feedback was overwhelmingly positive, but one of my colleagues reported that he found me “abrasive.” That one label discolored all the others for me. The colleague who labeled me as abrasive […]

Countering Your Inner Critic

Have you met your inner critic? Let me assure you, she’s there. She’s the little demon on your shoulder, the whisper in your ear, the voice of shame and self-judgment that gets in your face, especially on hard days. Your house will never look that good, no matter what you do. Why would she want to be your friend? No […]

The Mission Field of Motherhood

“Hear, O Israel! The LORD our God, the LORD is one! You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, […]

Working from Home with Kids

Strategies for Balancing a Full-Time Job and Homeschooling A colleague instant messaged me from her newly established home office this week. “Are you laughing at all of us trying to get adjusted to working at home?” she quipped. She has two kids who are at home with her because of school closures. I chuckled, but replied, “No. I’ve had years […]